Monday, December 30, 2019

Peace: My Goal for 2020

Little Women, Chapter 38

Are you the type of person to make a New Year resolution? I am. I love to spend the last couple days of the year contemplating my plans for the upcoming one: sorting through my "to be read" shelf to decide what books I will prioritize next, dreaming about how I can avoid the same old mistakes in this new year, coming up with that one word that will define the next 12 months of my life. Yep, I'm an optimist and I'm a word girl.

All this was much easier to do when all of my children were little and I was completely in charge of every schedule. Now that I've got two adults and three more teens behind those, (and four more littles behind those)! I've often got to work around their schedules of work, lessons, ministry, volunteer work, social life, and more. My word for the year of "intentional" or "just say no" or whatever gets lost in the busyness of accommodating other people's schedules.

Being sick the last few months taught me a lot of really valuable lessons. One thing I learned was how to find peace when life doesn't go the way I want it to. It could have been SO much worse, but I did miss a lot of special times with my family this past season. As I watched many of our usual Fall and early Winter traditions pass by with me too sick to make them happen, I had to choose between being resentful or being at peace. I had to find peace in not putting up all my usual Christmas decorations, in not making out my Christmas cards this year, in skipping our annual bonfire and hayride, in missing the night our family goes to look at lights on the town square.

I had to be very careful about ordering my days because I had just a bit of energy each day to spend on the most important things. In order to keep my home and family peaceful, I chose to focus on basic housecleaning, meal prep, and schooling. This meant stepping down from worship team and missing most church services, skipping time out with friends and staying off social media sometimes, dropping negative people from Facebook so I wouldn't dwell on stressful things, and generally turning my mind and heart inward to home to make sure I was providing the best atmosphere here.

All that is what I want this new year to be (without the sickness part, of course). I want to make the best choices that will keep my home peaceful. Some of the changes I made during that down time will remain permanent. As I enter 2020, I enter the decade that will bring the biggest changes to my life yet. Lord willing, by 2030, I will have eight adults and a graduate. I will be 50 years old. I will probably be a grandmother.

These next 10 years can be super crazy and super hard---or they can be positive times of peaceful change. Much of that depends on me and the atmosphere I create in my home. I'm not afraid to say no to good things in order to do the best things. I'm not afraid to upset someone with a choice they don't understand. Peace at all costs! Ha! That will be my motto for 2020. What I learned during that down time was that peace can be had in all circumstances, if I am intentional about listening to the Prince of Peace and His daily direction for my ministry at home.

Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
Matthew 11:28-29 (NKJV)


  1. Thank you Sarah. Once again you have given me great words of wisdom to make good decisions and goals! Happy New Year!

  2. Thank you Sarah. Rest was my goal for 2019 and I confess I had struggles but oh what a good year it was.
    May the Lord give you lots of peace this coming year. Happy New Year to you and your family!

  3. 2019 was a year. I feel like I battled on different fronts and came away a little battered and scarred, but not broken. ;) And I had to do the same with letting go of things and not doing all that I normally do for the holidays and definitely nothing extra. I was sick for over 6 weeks and it took a toll. But, I'm finally better and I'm pondering my word/scripture for the new year. I've been pondering all day and I think I know the word. More praying and pondering tomorrow. ;)

    I am so sorry I didn't realize you were ill.
    I do hope you're feeling better.
    Hugs to you dearie.
    I hadn't yet thought of all the changes that will come before 2030.
    I suppose after my illness, I don't always think that far ahead.
    Be blessed,

  5. Sarah, that sounds so sensible! Sometimes it takes a prolonged illness to "humble" us enough to realize we have limitations and need to prioritize so that we get the essentials done before getting bogged down in the nonessentials. I had the main part of our evening meal cooked by 10:00 this morning because good meals are a priority and I knew that by 5:00 I'd be tired out from lesser priorities, so …


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