When I was a young married girl, I had this great mental picture of what I believed my marriage was.
I imagined a giant, swirling hurricane, and my husband and I were right in the center of it. All the crazy stuff in life swirled around and around us, but we were safe inside, because we had each other. No matter what went on in the world around us, we were untouchable as long as we held on to one another.
Then he betrayed me.
I imagined a giant, swirling hurricane, and my husband and I were right in the center of it. All the crazy stuff in life swirled around and around us, but we were safe inside, because we had each other. No matter what went on in the world around us, we were untouchable as long as we held on to one another.
Then he betrayed me.
Suddenly, instead of being there in the safe center of the storm with me, he had become one of the messy things swirling around outside. I felt like my whole world was falling apart. I was sickened, scared, angry, hurt—alone.
Then I realized.
I was hanging out in the center of that hurricane with the wrong god.
I’d made my marriage an idol and my husband a god. When that false god failed me, I thought I had nothing left.
Then it hit me.
The only way to repair the damage in my marriage was to bring Jesus into the center of that hurricane with me. Truly, He is the only One who can protect me from, or see me through, the trouble that swirls around me.
For the number of years that I’ve been married, that was a long time ago. God has done some super amazing things in our marriage and we are definitely not where we were before. We are so much closer. We are so much better.
To have intimacy with your spouse, you have got to have intimacy with the Lord first. When you are intimate with your spouse, in conversation, action, or otherwise, you are exposing your heart. You cannot rely on your spouse to protect your heart at all times. He or she is a sinful, fallible human. The only One who can hold your heart safe in times of vulnerability is Jesus.
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Home Link Up at Raising Arrows
Homemaking Party @ Hope In Every Season
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Thriving Thursday @ Serving Joyfully
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Think Tank Thursday @ Saving4Six
Home Sweet Home @ The Charm of Home
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Modest Monday @ The Modest Mom
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